And as usual, Rich found a treasure that had washed up along the shore that he dragged back to the cottage. Reuse, recycle.
Random thoughts on:Living abroad in a third world country, surviving 90 days on hospital bed rest, parenting twins, the language divide, embracing change, knitting, running, cooking, life, living, dreams, & the pursuit of happiness.
Saturday, March 20, 2010
First Walk at Higgins
And as usual, Rich found a treasure that had washed up along the shore that he dragged back to the cottage. Reuse, recycle.
Friday, March 19, 2010
Today is the day...
I have missed him terribly. I have missed him as my best friend, my husband, and as a father to our sons.
Today is the day Rich arrives. But what I am even more excited about is that today is the day we begin our life together as a family of four.
Sunday we all return to Africa. The adventure continues...
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
Happy St.Patty's Day!
Laird Robert
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
Saturday, March 13, 2010
Cousins!
In less than two months, the Valdmanis clan has expanded.
Laird and Dylan have two new cousins!
Welcome:
Born February 25th
8 lbs. 1 ounce 20 inches
Anna Kellog Valdmanis
Born March 2
6lbs. 11 ounces 18 1/2 inches
Can't wait for the Fourth of July at Higgins Beach for all the cousins to meet!
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Chili Fest with the Gillespie's
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Toothless in Dakar

(Note: this blog does not relate in any way to my wonderful boys or my amazing wife)
A big swell lit up the reefs around Dakar last weekend.
While it was a disaster for the local fishermen grounded by the waves, it was a true joy for the city’s tight-knit crew of surfers who descended on their favourite spots in numbers.
I went to Ouakam Bay , an inlet made picturesque by its high cliffs, fishing hamlets and an ornate mosque. While it is a fickle break most of the year, it is reputed to be West Africa ’s best spot when it is working. And it was indeed working. Double-overhead swells feathered against the offshore breeze, rising up over the reef and peeling across hollow into the channel, like a rug being rolled up and packed away.
A wave like this breaks hard and fast over shallow coral and stones and a false move can mean a tough trip to the bottom. During the last big swell in early February, two people broke their legs here.
But if you catch a nice one, and make the drop, the wave is a gift from God.
I saw one kid experience both the cruel and kind side of this spot within the space of an hour. A courageous 15-year old French lad, he dropped into one of the bigger waves of the day while the pack hollered words of encouragement. He skidded down the face of the wave and leaned into a bottom turn as the wave gaped over his head. That’s when it went wrong. Perhaps his foot dragged, or he caught an edge. He fell and got body slammed into the rock pile. He came up shaken. He put his hand to his mouth and declared one of his front teeth was gone.
There wasn’t much blood. The extraction was surgical. In fact, I wasn’t sure if he was telling the truth, because he kept his mouth mostly closed as he paddled back out.
This kid stayed in the water for more. I guess teenagers truly believe they are invincible. Somehow they bounce back against incredible odds. At this size, if a wave even looks at me wrong, it can send me scrambling back to the beach.
Not too much time passed before this guy found himself lined up for another bomb.
I had just caught a good ride and was paddling back around the reef through the channel, which gave me a perfect view of what I expected would be another painful experience for the poor guy.
He scratched into the wave, was thrown down the face and leaned into his turn. This time it was perfect. He set his edge on a path straight down the line as the wave heaved over his head. His eyes were bugging out as the lip of the wave pitched and enclosed him completely. He was in the tube, hanging on for dear life. Two of the longest seconds of the day transpired, and then he came out unscathed.
His joy was unbridled as he kicked out of the wave, giggling like an idiot, his friends yelling expletives and praise.
He shot a smile my way, and there it was… his tooth… gone.
Friday, March 5, 2010
Friends
Today is going to be a good day.
It's going to be a good day because I also made a decision on how to best feed these boys. Rather than stressing myself out for various reasons on trying to nurse them both at the same time, I am going to nurse one baby, and the other can enjoy a bottle. Then the next feeding the boys will switch. The last few days have not been enjoyable for me as I have shed many tears wondering if the boys are getting enough food, and stressing on how to physically manage the process of nursing both at the same time. I'm not sure why we mommies put this incredible pressure on ourselves.
My dear friends Emily and Echo said it best to me. A baby is in tune to how mommy is doing. If I am stressed, they will be stressed. If I am sad, they will feel that. I need to remember that these boys will only be this age and stage of life once...and I need to enjoy and savor every minute of it. Formula or Breastmilk should not be ruining my days.
Today is going to be a GREAT day.
Sunday, February 28, 2010
Friday, February 26, 2010
Mom's Know Best...
Last night we had an incredible wind and rain storm here in Maine. In fact, winds reached 60 mph and many roads flooded throughout the evening. With every gust of wind, the house shook. Even the water in the toilet bowl shivered.
Before bedtime, Mom ran around the house putting flashlights and camping lanterns in each room. She even cranked the heat so that 'just in case' the power went out, we would be warm for a bit longer. I couldn't help but to chuckle, thinking that this was all overkill. Having lived in NYC for many years and NEVER losing power, the thought did not cross my mind that we would be stuck without power.
Even though the boys have started to figure out nursing, I still have to pump regularly to make sure both boys get enough breastmilk...and to prevent my own pain! For some reason, something told me around 10pm, to get on the breastpump. Sure enough, during the last minute of the pump session, the lights went out. As I sat in darkness hooked up to the pump, I looked over and saw the flashlight that mom left out and laughed out loud.
The boys had their first camping experience as our middle of the night feedings were done in lantern light. I shared with them many stories from Rich and my camping adventures...even the trip in which Rich proposed after a 7 day canoe camping adventure.
After I put them to bed swaddled in fleece and hats on their heads, I thought to myself, 'Mom's Know Best' as I turned the lantern light off.
Camping in La Verendrye Canada
